Category Archives: Law of Attraction

How to “Allow” (Law of Attraction & Abraham-Hicks)

girl allowing moneyI was just rereading one of my old blog posts and the comments and found myself caught up in pondering the bit where I talk about resistance.

And that reminded me of “allowing.”

I remember the first time I was told I should just “allow.”

Uhm, what do you mean, I would ask, and none of the answers were very helpful.

That was at a time when I was learning to do Quantum Touch Energy Healing, and allowing was key to making it work.

I still could get it to work, but the more I focused on “willing” it to work, the less it did.

Fast forward a few years…

I discovered Abraham, and I finally “got” allowing.

Abraham’s explanation was pretty good. But I REALLY got it when I read Erin Pavlina’s definition of allowing.

She wrote that it was much like in a restaurant, or if you ordered pizza or something (don’t remember the exact example though maybe it was both).

Once you call them and order the pizza, you basically stop thinking about it until it arrives. You don’t call back and inquire about the progress of your pizza. You don’t think frantically about what would happen if the pizza won’t show up…
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Thanksgiving, Gratitude, and the Law of Attraction

Happy Thanksgiving! I hope you were able to celebrate it surrounded by your loved ones, and were enjoying the turkey, the cranberries, pumpkin pie, and, oh, the Brussels sprouts too.

And every year, about this time, I am overcome with gratitude. Gratitude for all sorts of things, big and small, and even for a few things that haven’t even happened yet, but that I anticipate — and being grateful for them in advance appears to make them arrive more quickly.

Nutty? Not really! It’s just one of those amazing Law of Attraction techniques.

Looking at the date of my last post, I realize that I haven’t been keeping up very well.

The reason — some ongoing bout with the sniffles, sore throat, fatigue, and more. I’m still very tired, but I’m getting better. And I’m grateful! Also grateful for this not turning into something worse.

And for knowing the sort of things that help make it better, or at least easier to bear, from Vick’s VapoRub, and hot soup, and even that nasal rinse with the Neti Pot.

I have to admit I don’t much care for the Neti Pot really, but I do like the results, so I use it at least some of the time.

And I’ve figured out a way to enhance it even: by adding a few drops of some mix including Oregano! Yup, the stuff that goes on pizza is also great for killing bacteria. Now you have another reason to eat pizza! Another reason for gratitude.

So how does gratitude help with the Law of Attraction?

It puts you in a higher vibration. And when you’re grateful, you can’t be angry or depressed at the same time, so it’s a great practice to write down gratitude lists, or do a verbal rampage of appreciation, or just create a litany of things you’re grateful for.

It doesn’t have to be major. Even little things work and add up. I do highly recommend writing them down though.

And one thing I’m also grateful for is that I finally have my eMoney Magic program finally ready to go.

So if you’re ready to unleash some money magic on your behalf, click on the link:

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Meanwhile, treat yourself to a beautiful journal and keep it handy — and write in it every day, morning and/or night. Just make lists of things you’re grateful for. And watch your life transform!

Happy Thanksgiving!


Why Stress Relief Matters

Ever wonder why you should bother with stress relief?

Does it make you feel like a wuss if you take action to reduce your stress?

Sure, there are people who are actively trying to make you feel that it’s a weakness to avoid stress because, after all, “everybody is stressed.”

Maybe, and maybe not. But you’re not everybody, and let other people make their own decisions.

Here are a number of reasons why YOU should do something about YOUR stress levels:

1) Stress feels bad

Yup, it makes you feel bad, and, as Abraham/Hicks say, “The most important thing is that you feel good.”

How so? Well, if you feel bad, you’ll attract more bad-feeling things. And who wants THAT?

The better you feel, the better things will be going for you.

So it’s really important to get on top of stress.

2) Stress prevents you from doing your best

You already know that, but it doesn’t hurt to provide a little reminder:

When you’re stressed, your brain shuts down. And if it doesn’t shut down completely, it’s still highly compromised.

So you won’t be able to do your best, and doing lousy work or treating your loved ones badly will come back to bite you.

3) Stress damages your health

Stress causes, in no particular order, the following problems:

* Obesity
* Inflammation
* Heart Disease
* High Blood Pressure
* Vision Problems
* Kidney Problems
* Cancer
* Diabetes
* Problems in the ‘bedroom’
* Stroke
* Heart Attack
* Fried Brain Syndrome

And that’s just for starters.

Why not simply learn some easy strategies that will help you get that stress under control WHILE it happens? Why not nip the darn thing in the bud?

You can check out my last article for a great resource (ahem, my own manual), which comes with great BONUSES if you act quickly enough:

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Once you have your downloadable manual, you’ll be able to just take a quick look, pick out the best and easiest strategies, and start using them.

Here are a few of my favorites:

* Gratitude List
* Abraham Hicks techniques
* Breathing
* EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique)
* Aromatherapy
* Going for a walk in the park

Plus there are lots more where these came from!

Plus, there’s a stress relief hypnosis audio I have recently added as a bonus.

In the meantime, take a moment now and….


Have a relaxing day!


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Law of Attraction and Emergencies

Do you ever wish you could manifest your desires NOW? What if you’re in a jam and you need it yesterday?

Have you also noticed that it just doesn’t work?

There is a reason for that…

When you’re in a jam, your energy exudes “emergency” and “need” and unfortunately, the law of attraction will only sendyou more of that.

When you’re worried about something, you’ll attract more of what you’re worried about.

So what can you do?

It’s a catch 22. You need to find a way to feel better before things caqn better. And it’s a huge challenge. After all, it feels very counterintuitive.

I remember years back when I first was told that I had to be happy with where I was before I could get what I really wanted. I thought that was absurd. I was pretty ticked off at the “messenger” who told me that.

The thing is, he was right.

So what should you do?

Here are a few tips:

1) Breathe

2) Take a break or do something you enjoy. A walk, a bath, a cup of coffee, music, and so on.

3) Work with Abraham’s emotional scale (see sidebar for posts on that).

4) Pray and/or meditate, preferably both.

5) Have fun

6) Imagine you had it already and what that would feel like. Put yourself into that emotional state.

7) Let it go. Allow. Turn it over to the Universe/God.

Remember, you can’t rush things. But the less you resist them, the faster you’ll be able to attract them.

EFT World Summit: Patricia Carrington’s Choices Method

The EFT World Summit 2 has truly been an experience (and continues to be). I listened to almost all the audios as they happened, and tapped along. I feel cleansed and renewed already. And it’s not quite over yet.

UPDATE: It IS over and has been for a while, but you can get an easy introduction to EFT here:

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And if you get that you’ll also get my self help newsletter and I’ll let you know about future EFT events!

In the meantime, here’s one of the highlights of the summit:

Among my favorites was Patricia Carrington’s Choices method and well, there were so many wonderful other sessions, I will have to just write about them over time, one at a time.

The reason why Patricia Carrington’s stood out for me personally was because she really expanded my view of how to use EFT.

Traditionally, EFT was developed to reduce or remove negative feelings etc. Carrington uses it to increase good feelings.

I already knew about tapping on the positive, which I learned from Carol Look and Brad Yates, but Carrington took it some important steps further.

If you’re familiar with the Law of Attraction, you can immediately see the benefits of such an approach. We attract what we feel, and the better we feel, the better the things we attract.

This is all very nice, but what if we don’t feel so hot? What if life is rough and we feel very justified in wallowing in self pity, thank you very much.

It’s that old Leslie Gore song all over again– “It’s my party and I cry if I want to!”

And in a parallel vein: “I’m feeling miserable and I’m well within my rights to wallow in my misery.”

Well… we may be within our rights, but how is it serving us? Not so well, right?

The problem with that attitude is that we stay stuck in those feelings of misery. Bill Burns says that we do that because it feels familiar, and getting away from it makes us very uncomfortable.

I say, let’s get over it. I much prefer to feel good, and since Patricia Carrington’s method can get me to snap out of it when I need a bit of help in that area, she’s now my new best friend, or at least, my new favorite EFT teacher.

In addition to Carol Look, and Brad Yates, that is. Oh, and Jessica Ortner, who has created a very cool tapping sequence that she made available as a download. It’s about overcoming Fear of Failure, Fear of Criticism, and Impatience. Great stuff.

Happy Tapping!


P.S.: For another way to snap out of it, check back here in the next day or two for my new post on Alan Cohen’s new book!