Well, my cyber friend Wendy Betterini is a major expert on the subject. She’s written several books about it, among other things, but right now, she has outdone herself…

How to Allow Abundance: Wendy’s Course

She has created a course on how to attract money, or rather, how to ALLOW ABUNDANCE.

You see, attracting it is one thing. We’ve learned from the Secret how to attract. We know about the law of attraction, and some of us may think it doesn’t work because – where is everything I’ve been trying to attract?

Well, there is more to the law of attraction than deciding what you want. It took me quite a while (and a lot of reading Wendy’s materials, plus those by Abraham/Hicks, and Michael Losier, and lately Tara Springett, and I’m now understanding it.

Still, understanding and actually doing aren’t the same thing. And so I’ve been very happy with Wendy’s course which focuses on the missing piece in the equation, though it also is comprehensive enough to capture the whole process.

So how DO you allow abundance

I’ve written before about how I learned how to allow (or even how to understand what it’s all about), but Wendy provided a whole lot of resources that helped me actually allow!

And in this course, she’s put everything together, from Tapping exercises to meditations to lots and lots of other exercises. And she’s fun! So this won’t be a boring and solemn course at all. You’ll enjoy yourself as you work towards every increasing abundance.

If you click on the image above, you’ll get a sneak peak into what Wendy’s Allowing Abundance course is all about. This is not a “blind” ad – she lays it all out.

And she’s also given me access to an ecourse I am allowed to give to you for FREE, so here goes. Check it out – you’ll learn some cool tools as you go through her ecourse day after day.

What’s in Wendy’s FREE “How to Allow Abundance” e-Course?

Wendy’s How to Allow Abundance e-Course has 6 parts, not counting the welcome email, and will be sent out over about 10-12 days or so.

Here are the six parts:

• Part 1: What is the Law of Attraction and How Does it Affect Me Financially?
• Part 2: How Is Lack Formed?
• Part 3: Thoughts and Emotions that Attract Lack
• Part 4: Activities that Intensify Lack
• Part 5: Forming an Abundance Mind-Set
• Part 6: Activities that Increase Abundance

Why so much about lack? Because we need to understand how we sabotage ourselves before we can stop doing it.

Wendy definitely goes into the abundance increasing mode in her last two emails.

So what do you think? Want to know more?

Claim Your FREE “How to allow abundance” ecourse

To get your FREE e-course, simply type your name and email address into the form below and click on “Yes! I Want Abundance!”

To Your Abundant and Happy Life!

Elisabeth

Attracting Abundance

So how does attracting abundance work. If you’re reading this, you probably want to manifest or attract prosperity and abundance, or do so quickly. But the more urgently you want it, the BIGGER the roadblock that might be holding you back.

Case in point. I just talked to a friend this morning who was getting ready for a very important phone conversation about a big contract – and he was stressed out because he really NEEDED the money.

I can certainly relate. I’ve been there, and I still find myself in that spot much more often than I would like.

But I also know this:

If there is one thing you can do to improve your odds of attracting abundance, it’s to reduce the stress and focus on the positive outcome you want.

And that’s no matter what it is you want.

Sure, it’s tough to step back from your NEED and get into the space of happy anticipation and a bit of detachment from the outcome, which would be far more effective.

Does it work? Not 100% of the time. But here’s something to think about:

How often did you NOT get what you wanted and a few years later were REALLY glad you didn’t? It’s funny how things work out sometimes.

Okay, so that’s not what you wanted to hear right now. Me neither. But it’s something to keep in mind, if ony for the sake of reducing the pressure in the moment. And THAT’s what will help with attracting abundance!

In fact, if it’s for your higher good, chances are pretty good that things work MUCH more smoothly when you do calm down, focus on the positive outcome and in fact look forward to it (or something even better).

Basically, this means they work out when you don’t push them away. And stressing about things means pushing away what you want to happen.

Why you MUST let go of the worries and stress

The key is to let go of the worries because what you worry about you’re likely to attract.

Bill Burns told me years ago that if I worried about something, I may or may not draw exactly what I worry about into my life. But I will draw something along the line of my concern.

And here’s the quote I remember verbatum (about the “something” I will draw): “Trust me, it will be adequate.” Adequate to live up to my worries that is. NOT something I would want.

How to calm yourself down?

So how can you calm yourself down, let go of the worries, and get excited about what you DO want.

As I wrote last time in my post about how to make yourself feel better, there are a few choice things you can do.

1) Focus on what you DO want

Abraham-Hicks are adamant about the importance of that, and so is Michael Losier. How do you do that? Just make it your mantra: “So what DO I want?”

Focus on that, and the other stuff will fall by the wayside.

2) Gratitude

This is something I didn’t talk about in my last blog, but I am a great fan of keeping a gratitude journal, which I wrote about last Thanksgiving, and reminding myself of things I’m grateful for on a regular basis, ESPECIALLY when I’m worried and stressed.

It seems you can’t really be grateful and stressed all at the same time. So how cool is that!

3) Get an “Attracting Abundance” Mindset

It also helps to build a mindset that consistently works at attracting abundance and prosperity. That’s what I tried to accomplish in my eMoney Magic program.

Your efforts in manifesting abundance are not going to work too well if you keep pushing all that prosperity away.

So what’s eMoney Magic all about? You can check it out in my post on why your money mindset is so important.

But here’s the challenge:
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How do you get that money mindset?

To start with, you should focus on identifying and working through your money blocks. And if you click on that link, you can get a freebie that gets you started

And then, get control of them by using EFT. In eMoney Magic, Brad Yates takes you through two super cool sequences of how to eliminate those blocks.

But you can do it on your own too. Just grab the free resource here: Easy EFT Introduction

Want more tools for attracting abundance? Check back here on my self help blog in a day or two…

To your prosperity and abundance!

Elisabeth

The truth is that you need both.

You can have the best internet marketing strategies, but if, deep down, you don’t believe you deserve to have money, one of several things may happen:

a) You may not make much money at all, either because you sabotage yourself at every turn, don’t take the action you need to take, or — just because of bad vibes you send out.

b) You make money, but then you lose it faster than you earned it because — well, you don’t believe you really deserve it.

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I’ve read about a money thermostat (much like a fat thermostat, or the type of thermostat we have in our homes) in T Harv Ecker’s book. And he’s so right. We have a comfort zone, and if it is lower than what we need, we’re in trouble.

And of course, we might even want to raise it to the point where we’d really LIKE to be! So why not do something about it.

In eMoney Magic, I’ve asked three mindset experts to share their favorite techniques on how to attract money more effectively.

Morgana Rae, the Money Goddess shared some amazing information about how to have a better relationship with Money — by way of personalizing Money and making it into your Money Honey rather than your Money Monster (which is what many of us have).

It’s a way to appreciate Money and invite it and be good to it, and that’s just for starters.

Meanwhile, Brad Yates, EFT Master extraordinaire, leads us through two complete tapping sessions that are amazing at literally exorcising some of those sabotaging beliefs.

And right now, it’s available as a Warrior Special offer for a song…

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There are a few cool reviews over there too if you’d like to find out more about it, including the other interviewees, such as Steve Meade (self-hypnosis), and Jason Fladlien, Kevin Riley, and Dennis Becker (Internet Marketing).

More soon.

Elisabeth

And every year, about this time, I am overcome with gratitude. Gratitude for all sorts of things, big and small, and even for a few things that haven’t even happened yet, but that I anticipate — and being grateful for them in advance appears to make them arrive more quickly.

Nutty? Not really! It’s just one of those amazing Law of Attraction techniques.

Looking at the date of my last post, I realize that I haven’t been keeping up very well.

The reason — some ongoing bout with the sniffles, sore throat, fatigue, and more. I’m still very tired, but I’m getting better. And I’m grateful! Also grateful for this not turning into something worse.

And for knowing the sort of things that help make it better, or at least easier to bear, from Vick’s VapoRub, and hot soup, and even that nasal rinse with the Neti Pot.

I have to admit I don’t much care for the Neti Pot really, but I do like the results, so I use it at least some of the time.

And I’ve figured out a way to enhance it even: by adding a few drops of some mix including Oregano! Yup, the stuff that goes on pizza is also great for killing bacteria. Now you have another reason to eat pizza! Another reason for gratitude.

So how does gratitude help with the Law of Attraction?

It puts you in a higher vibration. And when you’re grateful, you can’t be angry or depressed at the same time, so it’s a great practice to write down gratitude lists, or do a verbal rampage of appreciation, or just create a litany of things you’re grateful for.

It doesn’t have to be major. Even little things work and add up. I do highly recommend writing them down though.

And one thing I’m also grateful for is that I finally have my eMoney Magic program finally ready in pre-Launch.

So if you’re interested in getting an incredible “steal” on it, click on the link:

eMoney Magic

Everyone who gets it during the Thanksgiving weekend will get a special bonus I’m creating just now — I’ll send it by email in a couple of days.

Meanwhile, treat yourself to a beautiful journal and keep it handy — and write in it every day, morning and/or night. Just make lists of things you’re grateful for. And watch your life transform!

Happy Thanksgiving!

Elisabeth

Does it make you feel like a wuss if you take action to reduce your stress?

Sure, there are people who are actively trying to make you feel that it’s a weakness to avoid stress because, after all, “everybody is stressed.”

Maybe, and maybe not. But you’re not everybody, and let other people make their own decisions.

Here are a number of reasons why YOU should do something about YOUR stress levels:

1) Stress feels bad

Yup, it makes you feel bad, and, as Abraham/Hicks say, “The most important thing is that you feel good.”

How so? Well, if you feel bad, you’ll attract more bad-feeling things. And who wants THAT?

The better you feel, the better things will be going for you.

So it’s really important to get on top of stress.

2) Stress prevents you from doing your best

You already know that, but it doesn’t hurt to provide a little reminder:

When you’re stressed, your brain shuts down. And if it doesn’t shut down completely, it’s still highly compromised.

So you won’t be able to do your best, and doing lousy work or treating your loved ones badly will come back to bite you.

3) Stress damages your health

Stress causes, in no particular order, the following problems:

* Obesity
* Inflammation
* Heart Disease
* High Blood Pressure
* Vision Problems
* Kidney Problems
* Cancer
* Diabetes
* Problems in the ‘bedroom’
* Stroke
* Heart Attack
* Fried Brain Syndrome

And that’s just for starters.

Why not simply learn some easy strategies that will help you get that stress under control WHILE it happens? Why not nip the darn thing in the bud?

You can check out my last article for a great resource (ahem, my own manual), which comes with great BONUSES if you act quickly enough:

CLICK HERE for Stress Relief & Bonuses

The bonuses are between you and me, so check the other article for details. They’ll arrive by email!

Mostly, you’ll be able to just take a quick look, pick out the best and easiest strategies, and start using them.

Here are a few of my favorites:

* Gratitude List
* Abraham Hicks techniques
* Breathing
* EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique)
* Aromatherapy
* Going for a walk in the park

Plus there are lots more where these came from!

Plus, there’s a stress relief hypnosis audio I have recently added as a bonus, along with another audio that goes over some of the main points.

If nothing else, go take a moment and….

breathe…

Have a relaxing day!

Elisabeth

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And that reminded me of “allowing.”

I remember the first time I was told I should just “allow.”

Uhm, what do you mean, I would ask, and none of the answers were very helpful.

That was at a time when I was learning to do Quantum Touch Energy Healing, and allowing was key to making it work.

I still could get it to work, but the more I focused on “willing” it to work, the less it did.

Fast forward a few years…

I discovered Abraham, and I finally “got” allowing.

Abraham’s explanation was pretty good. But I REALLY got it when I read Erin Pavlina’s definition of allowing.

She wrote that it was much like in a restaurant, or if you ordered pizza or something (don’t remember the exact example though maybe it was both).

Once you call them and order the pizza, you basically stop thinking about it until it arrives. You don’t call back and inquire about the progress of your pizza. You don’t think frantically about what would happen if the pizza won’t show up.

You don’t focus on the pizza, draw images of the pizza, and otherwise obsess about the pizza. You just let it go and allow it to arrive in due time.

And of course, it does.

And it’s much the same with most everything else.

Now, when I do Quantum Touch, I no longer even think much of the outcome. I just focus on the breathing and whatever technique or meditation I’m using, and don’t even think about whether it will work or not.

Interestingly, it works much better now.

And so, when I’m hoping for a certain outcome that I don’t have control over, I do my thing and then I meditate and visualize what I want, but without giving it a whole lot of attention. Just a bit of joyous anticipation.

And maybe some gratitude.

I think that’s the secret.

The language is interesting though… If we obsess about something, we don’t think we are resisting it, even though we are. Because when we obsess, the underlying feeling is fear that we can’t have it. And negative expectations are… resistance.

While relaxed positive expectations — and even none at all — are allowing.

Have you also noticed that it just doesn’t work?

There is a reason for that…

When you’re in a jam, your energy exudes “emergency” and “need” and unfortunately, the law of attraction will only sendyou more of that.

When you’re worried about something, you’ll attract more of what you’re worried about.

So what can you do?

It’s a catch 22. You need to find a way to feel better before things caqn better. And it’s a huge challenge. After all, it feels very counterintuitive.

I remember years back when I first was told that I had to be happy with where I was before I could get what I really wanted. I thought that was absurd. I was pretty ticked off at the “messenger” who told me that.

The thing is, he was right.

So what should you do?

Here are a few tips:

1) Breathe

2) Take a break or do something you enjoy. A walk, a bath, a cup of coffee, music, and so on.

3) Work with Abraham’s emotional scale (see sidebar for posts on that).

4) Pray and/or meditate, preferably both.

5) Have fun

6) Imagine you had it already and what that would feel like. Put yourself into that emotional state.

7) Let it go. Allow. Turn it over to the Universe/God.

Remember, you can’t rush things. But the less you resist them, the faster you’ll be able to attract them.

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And you can get the whole thing on downloadable MP3s for less than 5 bucks a program if you so choose, along with some great bonuses!

Among my favorites was Patricia Carrington’s Choices method and well, there were so many wonderful other sessions, I will have to just write about them over time, one at a time.

The reason why Patricia Carrington’s stood out for me personally was because she really expanded my view of how to use EFT.

Traditionally, EFT was developed to reduce or remove negative feelings etc. Carrington uses it to increase good feelings.

I already knew about tapping on the positive, which I learned from Carol Look and Brad Yates, but Carrington took it some important steps further.

If you’re familiar with the Law of Attraction, you can immediately see the benefits of such an approach. We attract what we feel, and the better we feel, the better the things we attract.

This is all very nice, but what if we don’t feel so hot? What if life is rough and we feel very justified in wallowing in self pity, thank you very much.

It’s that old Leslie Gore song all over again– “It’s my party and I cry if I want to!”

And in a parallel vein: “I’m feeling miserable and I’m well within my rights to wallow in my misery.”

Well… we may be within our rights, but how is it serving us? Not so well, right?

The problem with that attitude is that we stay stuck in those feelings of misery. Bill Burns says that we do that because it feels familiar, and getting away from it makes us very uncomfortable.

I say, let’s get over it. I much prefer to feel good, and since Patricia Carrington’s method can get me to snap out of it when I need a bit of help in that area, she’s now my new best friend, or at least, my new favorite EFT teacher.

In addition to Carol Look, and Brad Yates, that is. Oh, and Jessica Ortner, who has created a very cool tapping sequence that she made available as a download. It’s about overcoming Fear of Failure, Fear of Criticism, and Impatience. Great stuff.

You can get it here if you act fast: EFT World Summit 2

All I can add is this: Happy Tapping!

And thanks, Nick and Jessica Ortner for putting this Summit together. It rocks!

Elisabeth

P.S.: For another way to snap out of it, check back here in the next day or two for my new post on Alan Cohen’s new book!

Today, we have two new amazing programs. Right now, I’m listening to Patricia Carrington talk about tapping in positive memories and feelings to make the Law of Attraction work a LOT better.

This is especially useful during times of stress and distress about the issue at hand.

She says, it’s important to take snapshots of when good things are happening and you have positive feelings about the issue, i.e., money, and then tap it in, saying “I want more of this positive feeling”

Makes sense to me. I’m tapping

And then there’s Rick Wilkes who will talk about Childhood trauma.

Those will be up till 8 p.m. tonight, Thursday, EST, and after that…

Woohoo. Brad Yates, whose work I love, and someone else whose work I will probably love by the time I’m done listening to her program!

Don’t miss this.

This summit totally rocks:

EFT World Summit 2

And yes, these audios are all FREE to o listen to, like I said before.

But what if you want to listen to them again? Well.. you can, but then you’ll have to pay, though considering the value it’s really worth it.

You’ve got the choice between a downloadable version, whcih comes to about 5 bucks per expert and a physical version, which will be 10 bucks per.

Go there now and listen in… You’ll like it.

Tap tap tap

Elisabeth

P.S.:

In accordance to the new FTC rules, I have to tell you that I will get a commission if you get those if you go there through my link…

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That’s what just happened to me.

Earlier today, I had been listening to an interview and then I went on to my day’s work. Hours later, I picked up my iPod to go for a walk before it got dark. And I noticed it was playing….

Apparently I had forgotten to turn it off, and with the earphones you don’t hear it playing unless you’re pretty close (at least not at the volume that I tend to use).

I checked and it was playing Dr. Robert Anthony’s ” Allowing vs. Resisting” from his “The Science of Deliberate Creation” program.

It was EXACTLY what I needed to hear right then and there, so I listened to it several time, during my entire walk. Right now, I’m listening to the next segment.

It’s not that I didn’t know this information. I HAVE listened to his program before, and, of course, I have listenend to dozens of Abraham CDs. I’ve read a bunch of books, from Joe Vitale’s to Michael Losier’s books, plus Abraham books, and so on.

Still, it helps to be reminded occasionally that the way to create change is to focus on what we do want and not on what we do not want.

So now I’m doing just that

But isn’t it funny how life sometimes puts things in front of us with perfect timing? Coincidence? I think not.

Here’s another interesting incident I remember from quite a few years back — back when I was getting a lot of my info by way of listening to tapes on my car stereo.

One day, I was driving along and when I arrived at my destination and turned off the ignition, the last thing Roger Mellott said on his “Stress Skills for Turbulent Times” Tape was “Do what you say you value.”

This, he said, was the ultimate key to stress reduction.

Now I had listened to this tape quite a number of times, but I had never noticed this particular phrase. But now, with it being the very last thing before I turned the key, it practically boomed in my brain. And I spent a lot of time over the following few weeks thinking about what I needed to change in my life to get into better alignment in terms of how I spent my time.

So I believe that obviously these things are not coincidences. In some way, we attract what we need to hear, at last if we pay attention.

And so, today, I am going to pay attention to Dr. Robert Anthony. It’s time to get back to focusing on what I DO want, and to finding joy in every moment.

May our days be filled with joy and serendipity.

Elisabeth

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