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		<title>Getting over Intimidation: And then wondering why it seemed so hard&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 15 May 2009 07:09:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Elisabeth</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Getting over intimidation&#8230; often has a weird side effect, especially for me. And maybe for you too.  Who knows.
I&#8217;ve been dragging my feet for maybe a year when it came to upgrading my WordPress version (which means, procrastination is often born out of intimidation).  I started blogging when it was at 2.2 and never changed [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Getting over intimidation&#8230; often has a weird side effect, especially for me. And maybe for you too.  Who knows.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been dragging my feet for maybe a year when it came to upgrading my WordPress version (which means, procrastination is often born out of intimidation).  I started blogging when it was at 2.2 and never changed it.  I was too afraid to lose it.  The video I had with instructions seemed too complicated.  I was worried the plugins wouldn&#8217;t work anymore.</p>
<p>And so now we&#8217;re at 2.7.1.  Oh dear.  Now I was REALLY afraid to mess with what seemed to be working fine.</p>
<p>Except it wasn&#8217;t working all that fine.  I was missing out on a lot of cool stuff I could be doing with it if only I had the courage to upgrade.</p>
<p>So I took this course and got this really cool plugin.  It came with a condition. I had to install it and use it, and then report back on what happened.</p>
<p>Sooooo I finally installed it and &#8212; the installation wouldn&#8217;t complete.  I kept getting error messages.  Darn, I thought. Must be my ancient platform.</p>
<p>So now what?</p>
<p>I called <a href="http://www.MyFavoritewebhost.info" target="_blank">www.myfavoritewebhost.info</a> to inquire about upgrading my WordPress version.  About backing up the data base.</p>
<p>And then I went ahead and backed up all the data bases.</p>
<p>And then&#8230; I decided to use Fantastico to upgrade a barely started blog that I had all but forgotten about.  It worked fine, both before and after.</p>
<p>Okay, so then I tried another one that actually had stuff on it, a theme, a photo, and miscellaneous other things.  It worked okay too.</p>
<p>Then, I decided to take a chance.  I held my breath as I clicked &quot;update&quot; for this one, my flagship blog.  The apple of my eye, with hundreds of pages (or so it seems anyway).  And it worked.  Yay!</p>
<p>And then I wasn&#8217;t sure whether I should laugh or cry.  This was so easy I couldnt&#8217; believe it.  Talk about stress relief.  I had no idea how much stress this thing had been causing me.  But think about it, the anxiety caused by being intimidated and therefore procrastinating, all the while knowing that I had to do this thing.  And suddenly it was all gone.</p>
<p>Either I have progressed hugely or it had always been this easy and I just met someone who explained it to me the complicated way.  What the heck.</p>
<p>What&#8217;s interesting is that this sort of thing has happened to me before.  A number of times.  Some of it very recently.</p>
<p>Here I am, dragging my feet on something that intimidates the socks off me and it turns out a piece of cake.</p>
<p>Do you ever have that happen to you? Why don&#8217;t you share in the comment section, and if you&#8217;d like, I would really appreciate if you could also share what you do to get over it &#8212; at last.</p>
<p>In my case it&#8217;s often a do or die kind of thing. I had to do this if I wanted to use the action opt-in popup plugin &#8212; or pay someone to do it for me, and I&quot;m trying to save my money for other stuff&#8230;</p>
<p>So I decided to give it a try &#8212; and it was easy.  And fast.  I mean, it took just a couple of minutes each. So I did the rest of my blogs too.</p>
<p>The only ones that are still ancient are ones that I installed by hand (don&#8217;t ask), so the nifty tool Fantastico won&#8217;t be able to uninstall them.  So I&#8217;ll have to call tech support to help with that, and I think they said they would.</p>
<p>Anyway, it&#8217;s been an interesting day, and quite exhilarating too.</p>
<p>I just set up two new blogs &#8212; one for me (<a title="Richmond Web Marketing" href="http://www.richmondwebmarketing.com" target="_blank" title="Richmond Web Marketing">Richmond Web Marketing</a> ) and one for a friend/client (<a href="http://www.RichmondHandymanExpress.com" target="_blank">Richmond Handyman Express</a> ).  And now that I&#8217;ve got it down, it didn&#8217;t take long at all.  The photo on the Handyman blog will need some trimming I suppose, but what the heck.  I might also change the theme, but first I&#8217;ll check with him to see what he likes.</p>
<p>Anyway, do leave a comment and share your thoughts about intimidation and what you do about it.</p>
<p>And have a fantastic day!</p>
<p>Elisabeth</p>
<p>P.S.:  Now that I think of it, that&#8217;s the kind of stuff that Jason&#8217;s <a title="Time Management course" href="http://www.imtimemastery.com" target="_blank" title="Time Management course">Time Management </a> course helps with too&#8230;  I should go watch the videos again and re-view it all!</p>
<p>So that&#8217;s on the agenda for the next few days.</p>
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